Mixing or Withdrawing for Gain
It is reported that Wahb b. Munabbih – Allāh have mercy on him – used to say:
The believer mixes with others in order to learn, keeps quiet to keep safe (from sinning), speaks in order to understand, and secludes himself for the attainment (of good).
Ibn Abī Al-Dunyā, Al-‘Uzlah article 99.
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Related sayings.
In order to benefit from the knowledge of a scholar, one must be prepared to tolerate his anger.
One is only harmed by argumentation about the religion, whether with a scholar or an ignoramus.